Collaborative Law

The Collaborative Law Process

No two families are alike.

No two family breakdowns are alike.

A collaborative law route enables you to resolve your family law issues in the exact way that is right for you and all of your family. Its approach to each case is unique and governed by the particular needs of you and your family. There is flexibility, openness and true consideration can be given to all the needs of the family.

Collaborative law is a legal process enabling couples who have decided to separate to work with their
lawyers and other professionals to reach an agreement that is best for the whole family and actively avoids
the court process.

How Collaborative Law Works

You sign up to a Partnership Agreement with your spouse/partner, your collaborative lawyer and their collaborative lawyer to resolve matters collaboratively through a series of four way meetings. The principles of co-operation, transparency and respect for one another are enshrined in the Participation Agreement.
A series of four way meetings take place with you setting the agenda and timetable during which information and documentation will be shared and interest-based negotiations will take place
A family consultant and/or financial consultant can also support you both in meetings throughout the process
Your solicitor can no longer act for you if you choose to end the process and issue court proceedings. This incentivises all those involved, including the lawyers to be committed to the process. All participants are effectively opting out of the court process.
Once an agreement is reached, a Consent Order is drawn up and lodged at court for approval by a District Judge on paper. No court attendance is required.

The Benefits of Collaborative Law

You have control in managing the process in setting the agenda and discussing the priorities for you and your family
You have flexibility to set the pace of meetings and their timings to fit in with what suits your family timetable
You have your own legal advice and guidance throughout and your collaborative lawyer will process all required legal documents for you
If possible, face to face four way meetings take place in an informal setting and a safe and productive environment where you can be listened to
You work together with your spouse/partner and with the benefit of full legal advice to reach an outcome that is best for the family as a whole
A platform for communication with your spouse/ partner is provided and can be built on
Access to third parties who can assist with the financial, emotional and practical issues affecting you and your family such as life coaches and independent financial advisers is available as part of the process if needed.
The family benefits knowing that issues are being resolved together constructively without the threat and fear of litigation
Agreements can be reached as to how legal fees will be paid and it is unlikely that your fees will be significantly different to those of your spouse/partner
The financial and emotional cost of expensive and acrimonious court proceedings is avoided
Creative solutions can be constructed to include family circumstances that are important to the family but would be overlooked by the court as outside its jurisdiction
The uncertainty of litigation outcome is avoided as you retain control over the settlement that will be reached
You wish to retain control over your family issues and avoid them being dealt with impersonally and orders being forced upon you by the court.
You wish to resolve issues in this way and are willing to honestly disclose information requested and communicate your views in a supported way.
You wish to retain control over the pace of the process and its cost
You wish to prioritise the interests of the children and the needs of the family as a whole
You are willing to listen and respect your spouse/partner's views
You are willing to work towards a resolution in a co-operative and creative way
You wish to avoid the damage that court proceedings could cause to you and your family and the prolonged period of time it would take to reach a resolution
You would like a supported and private environment in which to clarify your needs and interests and
be listened to.
You require legal advice and guidance throughout the process and in meetings
You recognise that although the relationship as a whole, the family itself still exists but in a new way as two separate homes from which you and your family can work together and move forward
You wish to retain a respectful relationship with your partner/spouse beyond relationship break down
You wish to bring closure to your relationship in a dignified way
You wish to preserve relationships with family, extended family and mutual friends
You wish to avoid conflict and expensive court proceedings

You should find out more about collaborative law if

You wish to retain control over your family issues and avoid them being dealt with impersonally and orders being forced upon you by the court.
You wish to resolve issues in this way and are willing to honestly disclose information requested and communicate your views.
You wish to retain control over the pace of the process and its cost
You wish to prioritise the interests of the children and the needs of the family as a whole
You are willing to listen and respect your spouse/partner's views
You are willing to work towards a resolution in a co-operative and creative way
You wish to avoid the damage that court proceedings could cause to you and your family
You would like a supported and private environment in which to clarify your needs and interests and be listened to.
You require legal advice and guidance throughout the process and in meetings
You recognise that although the relationship as a whole, the family itself still exists but in a new way as two separate homes from which you and your family can work together and move forward
You wish to retain a respectful relationship with your partner/spouse beyond relationship break down
You wish to bring closure to your relationship in a dignified way
You wish to preserve relationships with family, extended family and mutual friends
You wish to avoid conflict and slow, expensive court proceedings

The Collaborative Law Process - Case Study

Next Steps

Contact Joanne Houston, collaborative lawyer for a free 20 minute consultation to find out how the collaborative process can work for you and go to the Resolution website for more information

http://www.resolution.org.uk/collaborative/

For more information view our collaborative law factsheet.