Christmas is a time for families to come together, but if you are separated or divorced, it can be a difficult time to agree on child contact arrangements. If you do not have a court order in place, it is important to start discussing your plans with your ex-partner in advance.

Our top tips for making Christmas contact arrangements:

1. Be flexible and willing to compromise. It is unlikely that you will get everything you want, so be prepared to give a little in order to reach an agreement.
2. Consider your children’s needs and wishes. Listen to what your children want and try to accommodate their requests as much as possible.
3. Be realistic about what is practical. Think about your work schedules, travel arrangements, and other commitments when making your plans.
4. Put your agreement in writing. Once you have reached an agreement, write it down and email the agreement to your ex to avoid any misunderstandings or disagreements later on.
5. Consider Mediation. If you cannot agree on Christmas contact arrangements, consider reaching an agreement through mediation. A qualified and neutral mediator will help you to resolve issues. third party helps you to reach an agreement. A lawyer can advise you on your legal rights and options and represent you in court if necessary. Be clear about the timings of drop-off and collection times, as well as any specific arrangements for Christmas Day and New Year’s Eve.
6. Communicate with your ex-partner regularly and respectfully. Keep them updated on any changes to your plans and be flexible if they need to make changes as well.
7. Put your children first. Avoid using them as messengers or getting them involved in any conflict.
8. Make the most of the time you have with your children. Plan some special activities for them and enjoy spending quality time together.
9. Consider Mediation. If you cannot agree on Christmas contact arrangements, consider reaching an agreement through mediation. A qualified and neutral mediator will help you to resolve issues. third party helps you to reach an agreement.
10. Seek experienced legal advice if you cannot reach an agreement and need to understand your rights and options and the best process available to you to resolve a dispute.

Christmas should be a magical time for children. It is important to make sure that they feel loved and supported by both parents. By working together, you can create a Christmas that they will cherish for years to come.